As someone said earlier I believe that black incels exists but just in smaller numbers and for different reasons, than non black incels.

Brothas have the advantage of the jump off and THOT (that hoe over there) culture where the entry bar to easy sex is low and the cost minimal—because the requirements for sex, don't take into account factors like looks, economics, number of children, etc. The purpose of these arrangements are purely sexual. An employed brotha who can afford a little food, liquor, weed, can entertain a low or lower income woman who will have sex in exchange for a respite from her day to day existence.

The further he can get up the aspirational food chain, i.e. looks, height, education, income, status—the greater the selection, both in quality and quantity, but the base level of entry for just getting laid is having a job. For example, in Chicago there are several working class bars where a guy in greasy mechanics coveralls or a postal uniform will be beating off chicks like rocks stars. UPS, FedEX, or any visible sign that a man is working and gainfully employed and a couple of drinks, and all that is required the barest minimum of game to achieve a successful sexual conquest.

Now this is provided that the focus is on lower income, less educated women—although it should be noted that this category of employed men can also bag better looking, educated and employed sisters if they carry additional attractors such as height, education, additional income, etc. So brothas are less likely to face a social stigma for having sex with women who may not be socially desirable or mate material because it is understood that they are just having sex with this woman. When learning how to date black women, it's essential to understand this dynamic of straightforward intentions and genuine interaction.

Lower income black women are more likely to trade regular booty calls for security as a survival strategy. A regular gentleman caller keeps the predators at bay, so even an unemployed male with minimal resources can score regular sex because he provides protection even if its just an illusion its better than having no man around at all. (Note: this behavior is not exclusive to black women as most women in lower economic situations will make this trade off)

As mentioned previously black men can cause arousal in non black women who are curious about the "myth"—this is good for a series of ONS or if he steps of his sex game a way to start a harem. This mythology also works with black women who are dedicated to the philosophy of NBABM (nothing but a black man) as it pertains to sexual gratification even when it excludes black men as a long term mating strategy.

Most black churches have scores of women waiting and looking for God to deliver them a mate or preferably a husband. The single male to female ratio is upwards of 10+ to 1. Now in order to be successful you have to have church game—attend regularly, know scripture and hold out the promise of looking for your future queen, etc. The potential exists to find a mate or several (but only through serial monogamy, which can even be short term) but too many ONS will garner social disapproval and eventual ostracization. Understanding the dynamics of how online dating and selective partner criteria work can help men navigate these community expectations better. It's one of the best/worst kept secrets in the black community.

The Paradox Of Black Male Incels Despite Advantages

The groupings of black men most likely to be incel are those with extremes in personality deficits (because I have known sistas to take in homeless dudes selling streetwise because they thought they would make good companions) extremely low on the looks spectrum, nearing facial or physical deformity (and this is extreme because I have known black men who have dwarfism and morbid obesity that has left them bed bound who still have girlfriends and or regular sex partners). So the physical appearance can more easily be overcome if there is some level of personality or income from their disabilities.

The largest group of black male incels comes from men who have bought into the media hype about the desperation of black women and how this relates to their appeal. Most black incels in my experience are black men who don't understand their lack of success with women because they are educated, and or employed, decent, with their own car, apartment, home, credit card, no kids, etc. So why can't they get a woman—especially when everything in the media tells them that there are hundreds and thousands of single women looking for a good black man.

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The problem with most black incels is they are punching so far above their weight that they have no chance. I know a guy, black, mid 20's, average looks and height, works for the post office. I know for a fact he gets hit on daily but not by the women he wants. He wants Beyonce or at least a booty model type chick. I know for a fact that he goes by certain natural hair salons, and weave shops on Saturdays and gets baked goods, and offers of home cooked meals, and numbers from women who just want to holla—but not from the girls he wants them from. Understanding how to be selective and find compatible partners online can help overcome these misaligned expectations.

But part of his route also includes several office buildings where receptionist, and secretaries offer him candy, and coffee, practically throwing panties at him. He wants the hot girls, who pay him no mind. I know his boys try to get him out of his box to go round the way to get some wings, or to fix him up with some of their girl's friends or friends of one of the jump offs they know but they aren't hot enough.

Or they have a checklist of things that they want from a woman that they don't possess themselves, but they believe that with the dearth of "good" available black men shouldn't be an issue. I find that a good percentage of male incels in general suffer from wanting women above their weight class but I find this is the case more so in the black community where the numbers are clearly in their favor.

Also part of the increasing in balance in the SMP for black men is a faction of women who are becoming voluntarily celibate—educated and employed black women who have chosen to opt out of the SMP because they only want to date black men, but don't want or can't have children and don't want to take care of someone elses, have deemed themselves as not being of value in the SMP and have decided to focus on education and employment. Living a lifestyle without men that I have termed non sexual lesbian (black women who spend the majority of their time in activities or endeavors that do not lend themselves to contact with men).

So this phenomenon will decrease the pool of women available for sex, mating and marriage—but that is for another post.